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9.17.24 - Mindful Divorce - Why Do Parents Choose Collaborative Divorce

Why Do Parents Choose Collaborative Divorce In Florida?

The numbers in Florida speak loudly – parents with minor children don’t want to drag their children through a long, drawn-out divorce. In fact, 82% of the married couples that choose the process of Collaborative Divorce have children that are under the age of 18.  These statistics don’t come as a surprise to most of…

9.11.24 - Mindful Divorce - My Divorce Attorney

Does My Divorce Attorney Need To Be Mean?

No, of course not.  This is the logical answer to the question.  None of us want to work with a mean, nasty or disrespectful person.  These are not endearing traits. In fact, many of us intentionally keep this type of person away from us and away from our families. Should You Choose to Work with…

How Do I Keep My Divorce Out of Court?

If you are asking this question, you are well on your way to avoiding the waste of time and money that often accompanies a litigated divorce case. Exploring your options and learning about the alternatives that are available to you for an out of court divorce process is an exercise that is mandatory if you…

DON’T TRY TO WIN YOUR DIVORCE

Sometimes our first reaction is not the best solution.  If you are contemplating divorce, deciding to go on the offensive, or to start a war against your spouse in divorce court is very likely not your best option. I have been through hundreds of divorce litigation cases.  It is very rare that either spouse “wins”…

Can I File For Legal Separation, or a Trial Divorce in Florida? 

Divorce is a big decision.  Before making that decision, it is best to gather as much information as you can to help you make the best decision available for you and for your family. One consideration is, should I go forward with divorce or first attempt a trial separation in Florida.  Below is a list…

Why Fixed Fees Work in Divorce

Contrary to popular belief, people going through a divorce have not lost all of their intelligence and common sense.  More often than not, when you are going through a divorce, you are not happy about the divorce. However, you are reasonable, and you would like a seasoned professional to provide you with an overview of…

What Are Durable Divorce Solutions?

Merriam-Webster defines durable as follows, able to exist for a long time without significant deterioration in quality or value. The longevity or durability of the solution that you are searching for is not always your first priority when you are in the throes of a divorce.   This is understandable.  Divorce brings with it many…

P.E.A.C.E.

P.E.A.C.E. is an acronym that we use to help families through the legal process of divorce every day.   This acronym helps us to stay on track, and to address each issue in your divorce process in a structured and well-defined manner.   P.E.A.C.E. stands for: P. – Parenting Plan E. – Equitable Distribution of…

How Does Collaborative Divorce Keep Our Finances Private?

Financial privacy is a factor that is often overlooked when you are considering a divorce process option.  However, safeguarding your financial information and keeping your financial life private during and after your divorce is a major benefit to the Collaborative Divorce Process.    Courtroom battles will often times expose your personal and business  financial lives…

Collaborative Divorce: What Happens When We Don’t Agree?

Overcoming Disagreements In Collaborative Divorce One of the most remarkable aspects of the collaborative divorce process is its ability to address and overcome even the most challenging disagreements.  Here’s how collaborative divorce facilitates resolution in the face of adversity: 1. Respectful Communication & Knowledge: Open, respectful communication is the cornerstone of collaborative divorce. By fostering…