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Can I File For Legal Separation, or a Trial Divorce in Florida? 

Divorce is a big decision.  Before making that decision, it is best to gather as much information as you can to help you make the best decision available for you and for your family. One consideration is, should I go forward with divorce or first attempt a trial separation in Florida.  Below is a list…

How Do We Make School Choice Decisions For Our Child After Divorce?

The answer is two-fold: Work with a divorce professional to help you address this important issue during your divorce.  This will assure that you have a comprehensive Parenting Plan for your children, and that your plan includes agreements on important Parenting Issues that will need to be addressed by you and your ex-spouse long after…

Why Fixed Fees Work in Divorce

Contrary to popular belief, people going through a divorce have not lost all of their intelligence and common sense.  More often than not, when you are going through a divorce, you are not happy about the divorce. However, you are reasonable, and you would like a seasoned professional to provide you with an overview of…

What Are Durable Divorce Solutions?

Merriam-Webster defines durable as follows, able to exist for a long time without significant deterioration in quality or value. The longevity or durability of the solution that you are searching for is not always your first priority when you are in the throes of a divorce.   This is understandable.  Divorce brings with it many…

P.E.A.C.E.

P.E.A.C.E. is an acronym that we use to help families through the legal process of divorce every day.   This acronym helps us to stay on track, and to address each issue in your divorce process in a structured and well-defined manner.   P.E.A.C.E. stands for: P. – Parenting Plan E. – Equitable Distribution of…

Slow Down and Listen

 The appointment was over before I had a chance to ask the dermatologist anything.  He came into the examination room, grabbed a bottle of liquid nitrogen and zapped a couple of spots on my shoulder.  He was gone. The doctor rushed out of the room and instructed the nurse to take a look at the…

What Is A Marital Asset?

Florida law defines a marital asset to be: An asset that is acquired during your marriage: individually by you OR your spouse; or an asset that is acquired jointly by you and your spouse.  See Florida Statute 61.075, Equitable Distribution.  In my experience, asking about the classification of an asset is really asking, “What should…

How Does Collaborative Divorce Keep Our Finances Private?

Financial privacy is a factor that is often overlooked when you are considering a divorce process option.  However, safeguarding your financial information and keeping your financial life private during and after your divorce is a major benefit to the Collaborative Divorce Process.    Courtroom battles will often times expose your personal and business  financial lives…

How Should I Communicate With Our Children About Divorce?

Parenting through a divorce is a challenging time that requires you to be honest with yourself, and to put in the extra work to help your children work through the major changes in their family structure. Here are some tips and helpful questions to ask if you are a parent that is working to help…

How Do I Put My Children’s Interest First In Divorce?

Divorce for parents is different, and it’s harder.  You ask yourself, what impact will separation and divorce have on our children?  Is there a scenario where divorce could be healthier for me and our children?  What can I do before, during and after the divorce to help our children adjust and thrive through this difficult…